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Below are thoughtful answers to the most common concerns, offered to give you clarity and peace of mind before beginning the process.

ivorce raises difficult questions - many of which are shared by nearly every client we meet.

Q:What if my spouse and I can’t agree on everything?

A: That’s normal. Co-mediation isn’t about a perfect agreement from the start—it’s about creating space for solutions. If you reach an impasse, you still retain the option of pursuing legal avenues, but most couples are surprised at how much progress can be made with guided conversation with two neutrals.

Q:Is mediation legally binding?

A: The mediation agreements themselves are not legally binding. Once finalized, they are filed with the court to become enforceable. This ensures both the integrity of the process and your legal protection.

Q:How is co-mediation different from working with one mediator?

A: With co-mediation, you benefit from two trained neutrals—one focused on the financial landscape and the other on communication and family dynamics. This balance ensures neither voice is drowned out and that solutions are both practical and sustainable.

Q:How does a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) fit in?

A: A CDFA® brings clarity to the financial picture—projecting long-term outcomes of different settlement options, identifying tax implications, and ensuring assets are valued fairly. It means you’re making decisions with strategy, not guesswork.

Q:What is we already have attorneys? Can we still co-mediate?

A: Yes. Attorneys can complement mediation. Many couples choose to mediate first to preserve control and reduce costs, and then have attorneys review the agreements. Co-mediation and legal counsel can work hand-in-hand.